It's not a black and white choice, but sometimes having your own independence is more important than your own home.
I did an experiment to try and grow my self-confidence.
Agree to work through your personal problems. Accept your emotions as valid. Learn to practice asserting your needs. And don't forget that whatever happens, there is grace.
I've met many people like me, who feel guilty for taking care of themselves properly. So, many don't.
Changing my lifestyle has greatly improved my happiness, more than I ever expected.
My perspective has changed recently.